Where do the two of you overlap?
Try it with a partner, friend, family member or colleague. Go one topic at a time: questions for that connection, 66 shared statements on values, daily life and personality, and your interests. Your score updates as you go, showing what's most worth talking about.
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Say who you are in one line.
Add one line about yourself. It sits at the top of your profile, so people meet you before any score.
“I feel complete on my own. I'm simply trying to be a good human, and I'm looking for someone to connect with naturally, where we each accept the other's pros and cons.”
A score starts a conversation. It doesn't end one.
How is the overall score calculated?
Each question pair is scored by how far apart your answers are. Those scores are averaged within each dimension, then combined with core values weighted ×1.5 and future plans ×1.25. Shared hobbies count as their own area, and the questions for the relationship you picked count double. For family, the roles you each want (for example grandparent figure and grandchild figure) must fit each other. For shopping company, one person's need for help with bags or lifts is weighed against what the other can offer, because those are hardest to change later.
What counts as a good score?
There's no pass mark. A gap on core values matters more than a gap on tidiness.
Are our answers saved?
No. This check runs only in your browser; nothing is stored or sent. Refresh the page and it starts again.